Tuesday 8 December 2020

Stress, Anxiety and the welfare of Doggos

I have a couple of a normal routes that I walk with Max.
A few days ago I was walking and I noticed a basket outside the front of one of the houses.  
The basket contained an array of dog toys and a few leads, with a note marked "Free leads + Toys". Fearing the worst I spent the next couple of days rationalising in my head that it was fine, just that the dog in question had enough toys and leads and it was an exercise in getting rid of some of the old ones that weren't used anymore.
I saw it again last night on my walk and I had to check, just so I could get it off my mind. 
I spoke to my Wife about it and she made a little gift parcel made out of wrapping paper (because she's good at that sort of thing) in which I packed up a few shortbread biscuits.
I knocked on the door, but didn't get a response, so I tried again after my walk this morning and spoke to a lovely lady who assured me that the dog in question was absolutely fine and it was indeed that there were just too many toys and leads and it was time to have a clear out.
As I already had the gift in hand, I gave it anyway in order to generally spread a little cheer.
Since march the level of stress and anxiety has been building up within me. This is understandable. I recently bought a house with my wife, which comes with its own things that need attention, this was my decision and I own that. The current pandemic situation, which is no ones fault, but adds another layer. The addition to that is the workloads that comes from that.
When it all "kicked off" I needed to organise laptops and mobile phones to ensure some 60 staff could work from wherever they were. I was fine with that at the time and got the work done. It was after that when it became apparent that the management paradigm no longer worked, meaning that a lot of processes needed manual intervention from myself. The fact that I was already in the middle of moving all services over to new hardware at the time of lock-down made everything that much more difficult. 
I've been reaching out consistently to management to try and lessen, or at least have the opportunity to sort through to regain some form of visibility again so I could get back to properly planning and managing. Consistently that's been met with either silence or additional work which just serves to add things to an already disorganised pile of work, which I have been trying in vein to organise in my head.
I had a really relaxing weekend, did a lot of fun stuff which involved naps, games and generally relaxing. The house was filled with the smell of Christmas biscuits as my Wife was preparing gifts for the family.
But then Monday morning rolled round, being the first day back in the office. I log in to see another email from my manager with urgent, high priority, needs to be actioned immediately tasks. It seemed this was straw that broke the camels back, I could no longer deal with the anxiety of trying to keep up with other work, like supporting staff with the mails and support tickets that continue to come in, trying to progress project work and provision new hardware in between each high priority email from management. I realised that I was basically trying to fit 8 hours work into 5 hours a day. 
I sent a mail to my manager, signed myself off sick, came home and spent the rest of the afternoon in bed.
I finally got up late-afternoon and did some pottering around, did a few bits and pieces that I needed to do, having to take regular breaks to regenerate spoons. we had dinner and then I spent the evening building a LEGO Darth Vader figure on a twitch live stream which was a lot of fun. A lot of people popped in to chat and wish me well, which made me feel better.
I spoke to my doctor this morning and he signed me off until the 4th of January so I have the next few weeks to try and chill out and hopefully clear my head to the point where I can have a reasonable conversation with my manager about some clear way of dealing with my workload
During this time, there are still a few things that I wish to complete, like finishing off the present purchasing, including wrap and dispatch. In between, I plan on playing games, stream, read, write, and generally try to unplug during the holiday period.

Reading this back, it may seem that this piece is just another opportunity to moan. To whinge about how I am being mistreated. This is not the case. Getting this down is an attempt to offload at least a modicum of the thoughts going around in my head and hopefully this in turn, will reduce some of the stress.

I am aware that lots of you are facing similar issues and to you I say: I hope you're hanging in there, you have the support you need and you are getting sufficient time to relax.
Have a great holiday period, whatever you are doing and lets raise a glass to make 2021 a much less stressful and happy affair.

3 comments:

  1. Yep, that sounds like management. Do feck all until someone really important to the business breaks under the strain and then (I'm predicting the next conversation with your manager here) go "But my door's always open, you should have said something".

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